
Today was my last day in Paris. I have an overnight train to Madrid in the evening and need to have everything set for the trip. I find travel days to be the longest and most draining part of the trip. The process of having to repack everything and the stress of making sure nothing is being left behind plus figuring out how to make it to the train stations and the hostels all add to a very tiring day. Today was going to be no different, so I grabbed my book and head out to the Eiffel Tower. The plan was to relax and rejuvenate until evening time. Then I'll shift gears and get to work for my trip to Madrid.
It was a cloudy afternoon in Paris. The tower was swarmed by tourists. I walked around for awhile, trying to scope out a perfect spot to sit and read. I opened my book and read a few pages, but the thought of Paris and all the things around me kept distracting me. I guess I have a long way to go before I can be as disenfranchised from the city as the Parisians. I lied down on the grass across the tower and started to reflect back on my short time in Paris, the people I met, places I went and the amazing food I had.
My only exposure to French culture is through Paris. After spending time with Mathieu, I realized how limited this perspective is. He told me there is no specific taste to French cuisine . There is no unique taste or style of cooking. Each region has its unique dishes and flavours. The cuisine north of France is more focused on game meat where the south is more sea food oriented. A bottle of wine from Bordeaux has its own unique taste and flavour in comparison to a bottle from Avignon. The people of France too, come in different shapes and styles. That's why it's difficult to try an backup a specific view on their culture based on a four day experience in Paris. That would be equivalent to judging all of United States based on a four day trip to New York.
However much like judging a work of art at a museum, coming from an uneducated perspective and solely focused on an emotion evoked in mere seconds, I'm going to try and share my opinion on French culture.
Any human being with an ounce of taste or style, would not be able to walk the streets of Paris and not appreciate the beauty and glamor that is the city of light. It is truly one of a kind and there will never be another city like it. Gushing with history, character and culture, I believe you have not lived, until you visit Paris. I remember the first time I came, the feeling of being in Paris and walking through its street stayed with me long after I left. I know the same will be true this time.
However, I personally can not relate to the French culture. I've spend some time thinking about this and I think I've figured out why. Through my own experiences and what I've seen, I feel the French culture, or what I've seen in Paris lacks a certain level of masculinity. I think because of this, I can never see myself living in Paris or being able to become part of its culture. A cute example I use from time to time is the one of Dr. Joseph-Ignace Guillotin. He invented the Guillotine in the early 1800s, perhaps one of the most masculine inventions coming out of France. Shortly after its inventions, the French suffixed it with an 'e' to make it feminine.
Another reason I can't relate to the French is cause of something important to me that I couldn't find in their culture. Paris is a busy city very much like New York. However the vibe I got from Paris, is one where hard work and persistent is not celebrated. Work is seen as work, fun is seen as fun and no purpose in life seems to be greater than being French. When you see New Yorkers, you a get a sense that they're aspiring to become something better, to do something bigger and to make a difference. When you see Parisians, they're already something better and are doing something bigger and the biggest difference they're making is that their Parisian. a 35 hour a week work schedule and heaps of social services makes it kind of unnecessary to try and make something out of yourself. Paris is an overly relaxed city that can inspire a painter to paint a mesmerizing painting or a poet to write an epic poem, but don't expect anyone living in Paris to paint the greatest painting, or write the greatest poem.
I headed back to the hostel, grabbed my stuff and took off for the station. Next morning, I was going to be in Madrid, Spain.